It is hard to say how one would act if placed in this situation. We all want to think that we are noble human beings, and some of us are and find the way out of it (how if you have a gun to your head?), and some might feel that their own wife and children should always take priority. I am NOT trying to justify it, but I think it is very complicated.
https://x.com/MarinaMedvin/status/1801021542282711456
What a heinous situation to be in